As i stated earlier it is very difficult to convince/influence you and your community and other masses.
Your posts have some knd of question marks and question-words like "what", "is" etc. In shorter words you are Seeking and that explains your question-marks and posts.
Can you look into yourself, and get an answer what are you ultimately seeking? Is it a feeling of joy? Is it an escape fro manxiety? Or what is that you seek? You can take my such question as the 2nd offered exercise and some peopel do that 2nd exercise for years long. So, take your time, and look into yourself.
Also it feels like you may like to jump from one topic to another quite quickly like all debators have done. I suggest a trhird exercise that stay only on 1 topic. Pick 1 topic and stay only on that 1 topic. In science the Math trains that part of the mind skill. In spiritual area meditation trains it. So, pick 1 topic and stay on it, go as deep as you can. Forexample, go as deep as you can to answer me why do you seek and suffer i nthis topic with question-marks like your community?